your sms

babe, do u still remember u told if i wan to runaway you wont be stopping me coz u dont like to force ppl. if i really do, u will let me go free and said nice to know me. that was so hurt. u promised wanna bring me along with your bike. i worried that u didnt sleep well. i texted you with contain "babe, dont u feel tired". U said "nope. i don have to be tired bb". i wondered whether you miss me. and you said u r too bz u cant do anythg even you miss me. when i writing this message, my tear is dropping frm my heart. you don wanna let me go but u din do anythg. y jz cant you tell me directly what's in your mind. i still missing you but seem like every msg sent to u din get any reply. made me gv up on doing anythg. short n sweet memories we had... still remember you called me "org jahat" still remember the first morning call, the first met... are these on your mind still??? love you babe

missing ?

Babe, been more than 2 weeks no any news frm you. No reply frm any message that i sent to you? Make me feel i not even a stranger. You still smile and say hi to stranger. Who am i then ? not even a friend that can be? if you feel more comfortable to stay what you doing now, i will respect what you are doing. let 2 frens become to the strangers that nvr meet in the same world. don't worry about what am i going to treat you. Letting go you now cause i know i cant have you ever but i do hope u still call me "babe".
Y i chose to quit my job? reason being is before committed in any relationship, i would like to do what i plan to do like doing some charity activities or work as volunteers. Dont know how would be if there is no internet connection n calls free for 2 weeks. Wont be seeing you frm FB. wont b knowing your updated status. hope i can use to it frm the 1st day there.
still missing you here.

the sweet memories

even it not last long but the sweet memories ending with memories in my mind. it was really sweet every single morning calls. one day, when i was rushing to work. i chatted with you in the car. i heard mummy was around you. i wondered mummy listening what we saying. i asked you whether mummy asked you who you are chatting with. You texted me "mum wan to see you tonite. how bb? how i wish i could be the gal that you bring home to see your mum. that's will prove that i m in your heart. I m the someone special. I dont know you read all my notes here. Seem like all my hopes on you has gone after let you read my expression.
Babe,do u still remember that was a nite you were here and wanna to meet me up for drinks. But i have smthg on. you were dinner with your friends. after taken your dinner, you went to MPH @ Gurney. You called up and chatted with me while i was taking my dinner. You called me"orang jahat". We were arguing with some nonsenses. After 2 days we met, you called me the same thing "orang jahat". During the dinner we had, do u still remember you asked how is my fingers. Babe i wish you could care me as much as you can. Jz the little concern, that was sweet and memorable for me.
You posted a msg in FB "miss you but yet you are far frm me...make me let it go..." if this message you wanted to show me, i m sure that you are not falling into me deeply if yes distance will never be apart, it's the heart that breaks the love. i hope you read this and understand my feeling.

still...

jz dont know why... you create hope for me and you grab it back from me. I was so happy when you said that you will go short trip with me. But end up you jz left me w/o any message. we dont have chance to chat at all again ? we dont even have chance to have date again ? how sad when both friends become strangers ? when you posted a message in FB "dont promise me things. i dont trust words. i trust actions." i surely know you got what i did for you. But sad that u dont even wan to respond. "you're like a target i always try to aim at. How i wish i could aim you at my heart. but everytime i fail, i feel so sad. You know y? it's becoz i always end up missing you.
Still recall the last "miss you" frm you? it was on a Sat morning 7th May. Frm that moment, our relationship getting far and far and now we r like strangers.

babe, i love you

babe, i wanna share my love life here with you. since i was 14 already committed in my first love. it last for 13 yrs. all while there were few guys came after though...but i dont know y i jz don have any intention with them at all. i donno how to prove you that my love on you is true. you might think that i m jz playing fool with you. i will nvr did that to anyone. i dont want to waste my time on anyone that i dont have feel with as what you did. i have you to hate me in telling you the truth but i got nothing even a reply frm you. wish you do appreciate me as i appreciate you. miss me as how am i missing u there. i know you have someone in your heart. I don wanna gv up on caring on you. i really feeling sad coz i din feel my true love here. if you wish to keep silent and don let me know the answer why dont you delete me from your list instead.
when i met you, i felt happy because God blessed the broken road that led me straight to you.
I liked your status just to drag ur attention...commented upon yours worthless status just to show that "you are in my heart, my care on you"...
It's like a dream, once awake you wont get what you've dreamed.
I did whatever i can for you.
it needs courage to tell a person "i love you". it contains commitment, trust, understanding, caring, communicate, respect ...

i will prove you wrong

babe, u might fall into someone that you love. i know i m here jz to see and greet you the best and cant do anythg anymore. I cant have you. we planned to go for a short day trip but after showing you my blog u went missing again and posted all the msges to drag my attention to show that you're actually in love with someone. I thought that we can have the sweet moment again together. Do you know all your words made me feel bad. I dont believe whether what i said is not true. Since given up on the first love, it had been few guys came after but i dont have intention at all with them till we meet. the feeling on you really strong. babe, i miss you everyday. i know we dont have chance anymore to upgrade your status. i hope you stay happily there always. Time will prove you that i in love with you.

what's in your mind...

on the 18th July, i was back frm KL to Penang. During the long journey, our sweet times kept surrounding my mind. i took the initiative to gv you a test asked you for supper. You were there with me for an hour. These few days i posted what's in my mind in FB. You replied me with some words that made me confused. What's in your mind? i really hope you are here with me when i feel empty. I wish your shoulder is always there whenever i need it. The someone that i mentioned is "u" , my babe. My shoulder is reserved for somebody. The somebody is "u" , my babe.
I really want to know what's in your mind. Y you left all these words there to make me feel confuse? i dare not to ask you again coz i scared i really scared i miss you again.

曾经。。。我真的很爱你

因為愛你…

所以放手還你自由…

因為愛你…

所以不再讓你困擾…

因為愛你…

所以寧願自己難過…

因為愛你…

所以我逼自己離開…

曾經！

曾經…我真的很愛你！

曾經…我一直等待感情的來臨！

曾經…我真的不想放棄你！

如今…我不是不愛你！

而是…我放棄了這一段苦苦等待的感情！

因為…我不願在一個人傻傻的等下去了！

因為…我想重新過我的生活！

只要…我自己一個人的生活..

曾經…我真的不願放棄這一個戀情！

曾經…我真的很後悔沒相信你！

曾經…我真的不願放棄等待！

可是…我的心也是會累的！也是會想流淚的！

但是…我從昨天就跟自己說過：該是放棄的時候了！

想傳達你說..

我不會在打擾你的生活..

只是…我永遠都會祝福著你！

用我最真誠的心~祝福著你…

只願你過的比我好喔！

典欣的心情！

無所謂你們想知道與否，

只是…….想舒坦自己的心情罷了！

遇上一個人，只需一分鐘；

喜歡一個人，只需一刻鐘；

愛上一個人，只需一小時；

但……..要忘了一個人，卻要一生！！

在你跟對方在一起的時候..你了解你是喜歡他還是愛他嗎??

還是只是喜歡依賴的感覺??

當你真正愛一個人的時候..你懂得去珍惜對方嗎??

在你失去對方時..你又能放手嗎??

愛的方式有許多種

也許你選擇追求很多段戀情找尋新鮮感..在情海浬沉浮

也許你選擇在原地守候..不甘願錯過任何一個機會

但是

你懂愛一個人的心情嗎??

每個人一生中有許多愛的機會

差別在於愛得深愛得淺

愛了就別說抱歉..愛了就別有一絲抱怨

也許我不懂如何愛一個人

但我懂安靜的守候在對方身邊

也許是個沉重的負荷

但我想

比放棄一個人還要來的輕鬆許多

struggling...

it's has been more than a month you been missing. the feeling of missing really killing me. Didnt know why you been so cruel? on the 15th June. Got a reply from you on my message. we chatted alot. you were telling me that you are jobless. i felt sad and didn't know how to help you on it. you shared what you plan to do. i did feel happy because u shared it with me. it's jz a little sharing already enough for me to feel the warmest. i hope you can share whatever you feel to share with. sometimes when i see you online, i dont know shd i take the initiative to talk with you. i worry i might make you feel annoying. since the day you left , minutes to minutes i still missing you frm the 1st day we knw each other. do you miss me as i do ? when i start to care & concern about you, you seem like avoiding the topic and keep silent. i feel so upset and dont know what can i do for you to grab you back? My heart keeps telling me u will be back to my side one day. i m waiting and waiting till i got the answer frm you. i wont gv up and will do whatever i can for you. i hope everythg i did for you will get touched your heart. i miss you to call me "babe". i miss you to call me in the morning. i miss to chat with you before we go to bed. i miss you when you say "i miss you"...whatever you did i do keep in my heart...every single words from you as well...
babe, i miss you so much...hope you hear it.
how come these 2 days you keep silent again... babe i wan you to be happy always that is what i ever wish ...

时间对了、再爱你

喜欢上一个人的时候

就一直在思考 这个阶段谈恋爱合不合时宜

总觉得 这个年龄 一个人怎么能承受起另外一个人的重量呢

所以只选择喜欢 却不要求一定要有什么结果

朋友说我内心过于强大太冷静太能忍受煎熬

其实不是 只是经历过一些东西 人就变成熟些了吧

考虑的东西也就不仅仅局限于眼前了

而且对于我来说并不煎熬

我享受这种夹杂着甜蜜与苦涩的过程

如果你现在拥有了心中那么好的他

那将来会不会失去呢

可能因为彼此不懂珍惜不懂宽容

或者 因为你们的人生轨迹没有了交集

有许多事情 现在都无法确定

我所能想到的最好的结果是

等到彼此已经能够掌控自己的人生时

如果还那么喜欢他

就一定会毫不犹豫地告诉他

只是想在自己最好的状态 也在他最好的状态时 在一起

当然 不能排除错过的可能

而且这个可能性非常大

有人问我：你不怕你会后悔吗？

我说：可能我会后悔，但是我不怕。

我想 当我会后悔的那个时候

虽然遗憾 但是却已经有足够的勇气承受这个结果

我会微笑地面对

有过这种喜欢的感觉 就已经足够

只不过做了一个选择

和两种可以预见的结果

是前者 当然幸福

是后者 也欣然接受

所以 我才发现

当你想通一些事情时

一切就变得很简单

喜欢也变得很简单

既然不打算说

那你就一直对他笑就好了

呵呵 对喜欢的人笑有时候也需要鼓起勇气

所以常常会笑得很傻

可是 不管笑得好不好看

这都是最温暖的一种方式

不会给人压力

我一直觉得

要温柔地对待别人和自己

这样 你会过得很坦然很幸福

虽然有时候很想知道一个结果

虽然有时候会哭

虽然有时候会彻夜不眠

可是 笑一笑

一切都过去了

就这样喜欢你

时间对了 再爱你

我等你...

《我等你》如果在等一个人要看、有一个等你的人更要看

一 句我等你. 不知道需要多大的勇气. 它远比我爱你三个字. 来得更需要勇气. 不是每个人你都愿意等待. 也不是所有人都值得你去等待. 一句我等你. 包含了很多的无奈. 心酸.苦涩. 或许是爱不到.或许是不能爱. 不论怎样.我等你这个承诺.远比我爱你更动听. 看看身边. 有多少人曾经对你说我爱你. 可有谁会说一句我等你. 谁会愿意那样卑微的等待. 不计较任何的回报的等待. 说一句我爱你很容易. 可却和少有人愿意会说一句我等你. 在我看来.一句我等你. 是三个字的承诺. 许面前的这个人. 一句...我爱你感动了你. 但你却忽略了那个说我等你的人. 只是三个字. 前者的爱有激情但肤浅. 后者的爱单纯又执着. 年少的时候. 我们向往那些激情. 钟爱那句我爱你. 受了伤也不投降. 当被伤透彻了才知道一切都因为一句. 我爱你. 那个时候. 你更愿意听到那一句我等你. 如果. 在你身边有那么一个人. 她愿意毫不计较的为你付出. 默默的等你. 那么.请千万珍惜. 她会是一直陪你走下去的那个人. 她不会在半途中将你丢弃. 因为她懂得珍惜与付出. 她懂得那一句. 我等你. 可是你懂吗？ 为了爱你.选择等你.等你. 是 因为更能好好爱你.让你给她一个家.陪她走完这一生.如果正有一个等你的她.好好珍惜.能拥有对你这样痴情的她.有的人一生都不会有这种机遇.你遇到了请 不要辜负她的心.因为说出等你时她就决定.放弃等你的途中一切幸福的机遇.或许对她来说错过的不是她的幸福.即使她对你们的结果心里没底.都一直等下去. 说明她真的对你太痴心.你也可以说她傻.但是一切都是为你傻.能等到你.和你永远在一起才是她真正的幸福.相信和这样的爱人共渡一生你也会幸福.经常给她 个消息.她就会兴奋不已.在孤独也不会觉得空虚.因为虽看不到你.心中都装满了你.好好珍惜吧. 祝天下等待的人都能有好的结果

跟着感觉走

如果真的有一天。某

个回不来的人消失了。

某个离不开的人离开了。

也没关系。时间会带你去最正确的人身边。

请你先好好爱着自己。

然后那个还不知道在哪里的人。

会来接你。

I missed you but I missing you. I missing you but I missed you .I see you but I seeing you . I seeing you but I see you

——明明已经错过你，但我却还在想念你。

当我想念你的时候，但我不能再拥有你。

明明已经别离，却又再次相遇。

当我们再次相遇时，却不得不说再见。

世界上最心痛的感觉，

不是失恋，

而是我把心给你的时候，

你却在欺骗我

Leave a place, scenery is no longer belong to you, Miss a person, blessed is the man that has nothing to do with you.

离开一个地方，风景就不再属于你；错过一个人，那人便与你无关。

The worst feeling ever is not knowing whether you should wait or give up.

/最糟糕的感觉，莫过于不知道应该等待还是放弃。

因为爱情的缘故，

两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。

然而，相同的两个人，

在分手时却说，

我觉得你越来越陌生。

爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉，

又由熟悉变成陌生。

爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣，

又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏

这个世界上我还可以遇到很多人，

我的爱也不是非给你不可，

只不过我都给了你就不能给别人了。

我不是非等你不可，

只不过我等了你就不能等别人了。

我也不是不能忘掉你，

只不过你让我死一样的痛过罢了。

让人想念，总比想念别人好。

一辈子，就做一次自己。

这一次，我想给你全世界。

这一次，遍体鳞伤也没关系。

这一次，用尽所有的勇敢。

这一次，可以什么都不在乎。

但只是这一次就够了。

因为生命再也承受不起这么重的爱情。

愿意为你丢弃自尊，放下矜持，不管值不值，不管爱得多卑微。

我爱你，没有什么目的。

A miss is avoided disappear.

有一种想念叫避而不见

Maybe God wants you to meet many wrong people before you meet the right one, so when this happens, youl will be thankful.

也许上帝让你在遇见那个合适的人之前遇见很多错误的人，

所以，当这一切发生的时候，你应该心存感激。

有多少人、多少份感情，

并不是败给了距离，

也不是输给了时间，

只是缺乏了一份勇敢面对的勇气，

错失了最佳的时机。

感情与生活不同，

在感情的世界里，

我们可以拘谨，

但不能太拘束，

很多时候都需要你理直气壮地说出来，

而不能萎缩在一旁沉默，

沉默只能塑造出一个个不解之迷，

永远也不能让彼此心知肚明。

I acted like it wasn't a big deal, when really it was breaking my heart。

我装作一切都无所谓，虽然我已心力交瘁。

与你无缘的人，

你与他说话再多也是废话。

与你有缘的人，

你的存在就能惊醒他所有的感觉。

有些人即使在认识数年之后都是陌生的，

彼此之间总似有一层隔膜存在，

仿佛盛开在彼岸的花朵，

遥遥相对，不可触及。

Sometimes God doesn't give you what you want, not because you don't deserve it, but because you deserve more

——有时候，上天没有给你想要的，

不是因为你不配，而是你值得拥有更好的。

一个人最幸福的时刻，

就是找对了人，

他纵容你的习惯，

并爱着你的一切。

In the end you'll see who's fake, who's true and who would risk it all just for you.

到最后，你总会明白，谁是虚心假意，

谁是真心实意，谁为了你不顾一切。

Special Day 6th June 2011

today is your birthday. There was a special greeting has been sent to you via FB. Surely you read it but till end of the day i didnt get any reply from you. It's doesnt matter whether you read it but i truly wish you everything will be fine for you every single day. You are really cold blooded. Never keep the promises. All just blank promises. I feel hopeless whatever you were telling never put hope on everything that you are telling me now. I know you are letting go and dont even what to be friends anymore. I saw you replied all the msg whoever posted their greeting for you in FB. I wondered... when are you returning? From this moment, i know what's the answer. All times i m the only who did everythg to grab you back.
whatever i did didnt get any respond but i nvr gv up.
Hope you will back one day i call me "babe" ...

几米的故事

男孩也好女孩也好，一起看看幾米的讀白吧......
他很清楚的知道她不合适自己，可是更确定的是他不会主动说分手。他只是耗着等着，直到有一天女生自己受不了忽冷忽热、若即若离的态度或是等到年华老去不得不下决定时，自己选择离开。
　　你的主动离开，我没有负心，反而是尊重与成全你的决定。　　　　
半年后发现，他居然可以跟一个只认识三个月的女生步入礼堂，令她晴天霹雳，才明白他不是不想结婚，不是真的不婚主义者，说穿了只是他不想跟你结婚!　
　八年的爱情长跑比不上三个月的感情。
　这位故事中的男生是我的朋友，现在也已经结婚半年。当他听到刘若英的《后来》，居然会无法克制的流眼泪，想起的是他交往八年的前任女友。
　为什么会难过，因为妻子身上有着前任女友的影子。他才明白其实他喜欢的就是这种类型的女孩。　　
　可是人往往很矛盾，喜欢她的倔强与有性格，却受不了她的娇纵。喜欢她的落落大方，却受不了她的朋友一堆。
　　你爱她的小家碧玉，就不要怪她不够大方。　
　　你爱她的活泼大方，就不要批评她象花蝴蝶一样。　　
　　恋爱谈的愈长，结婚的可能性就愈低，所以有时候恋爱的长度与结婚的可能性成反比。　　　　　喜新厌旧是人性，日子久了，会结婚不是为了爱情，而是责任感的驱使。婚后的他才慢慢的发现，当时的那一段感情其实不是不爱，只是时间太久了太长了，把爱情给磨掉了，再遇到另一个女孩点燃了爱情的火苗，星星之火足以燎原，把枯竭已久的爱情给予生命，所以仓促的决定结婚。
　　等到真的结婚后，爱情降了温，才慢慢的发现其实妻子的身上有着许多前任女友的影子，他比较爱的人其实还是前任女友，可是他娶的却不是她。　　
　　这样的情节不知道是不是也在别处同样上演着？　
　　学生时代的爱情很单纯，出社会以后总想等工作稳定以后再结婚，工作稳定以后又想有一点积蓄买车子、买房子以后再结婚，等着等着，等到爱情被时光给消磨，等到第三者介入点燃了对方心中激情的火苗，干柴烈火不可收拾以后，曾经在年少一起织梦的理想全都抵挡不了新鲜感的激情，所以琵琶别抱，到最后步入礼堂的都不是在一起同甘共苦、共同经历过寒、暑假，等当兵的人。
　　所以奉劝各位女孩子，如果对方真的是你想结婚的对象，不要想着有房子有车子有金子，有了一切再结婚。　
　现实是，等他有了一切，他的身价暴涨是有价值的单身贵族，他必须要面临的是更多的诱惑，你长久以来的等待与年轻时许下的山盟海誓都难以抵挡诱惑排山倒海的来。　　　
　就象我现在，若不嫁他，非得等到他有车子有房子还有存款时再结婚，那时新娘有极高的可能不是我。　
　因为要等到什么都有还要几年？
　有能力的男人就象酒愈久愈香醇，女人则象面包一样有赏味期限，青春是女人的天敌。
　如果我是他，等到我三十五岁，什么都有是个有上千万身价的黄金单身汉，我并不需要一个很有能力而年过三十的女人来帮衬我，我宁可选个如花似玉，年轻貌美的女生，也许没有什么工作能力，至少发挥了赏心悦目的功能，一个真正有能力的男人，不会在乎一个女人是否能在他的财富上加乘。
　遇上对的人，莫等待莫蹉跎，也许没有房子没有车子，只要他认真上进，他就是张有潜力的积优股，早点进场获利更高。　
　也提醒各位男士，如果对方真的是你想好好疼爱的女人，别让他等太久，有她一起陪你奋斗应该是很美好的一件事，除非你心中有其他的想法，否则别让爱情等太久，把真爱都磨掉了

our love story...

on the 9th Apr (Sun), we exchanged number via msn. We added each other in FB as friend. From that day, we started to send sms and share lots about our prev love life. U asked how u gonna call me. I told that I'd like you to call me "babe". We started to chat via sms for 2 days. On the 3rd day, in the morning, you gave me a morning as promised. I awaken at the moment and silent for seconds till you started laughing and asking "where babe". We dont really chat and just hang off our first call. U called again the next morning, i really love the sweet morning calls that we had. That was a Sat nite (16th), you called and told me that you not free to acc me. I was sad caused i just finished worked and wanted you be around but u went and met your frens. The nxt morning, you got up early. It was ard 9am. We chatted almost an hr. You told me that you "miss me so much" and because of the night b4 your were not around with me and worried that i will be sad and not happy with that. I felt sweet and happy cause i really felt that's the real feeling of missing from you. You called me "bb" when u r calling me. Every nite before sleeping, we will chat for few minutes before falling sleep. One day, you promised that you will gv me a call when you reached home frm work. I was waiting n waiting also sent few sms to you but didnt get any reply from you. I gave up n went to bed. Suddenly at the midnight, my phone got incoming message. The msg has awaken me. It was frm you. The text with words "sorry i fall sleep too tired". I replied you "is ok". You thought that i didnt sleep for the whole nite bcoz of waiting for your call. I replied you n said "nope. i went to bed after sending msg to you". You replied me again "Let we sleep again together ya". The words has sweeten my heart. One day, you forgot to bring back both your phones. You reached home and online tried to see whether i online & wanted to let me know that you left your phone in office. I was very angry coz u didnt call me until i get the msg frm you in the nxt morning. I remember every single words you said. Love to hear when you answered me when you going to bed also just got up frm you sleep such like "hmm...", "baby". On 24th (Sat), you said you will be in Pg and dinner with me. I was happy coz this was the moment i waited for long. Yes, we met that evening n dinner at Paparich in e-Gate. we had ice-cream toasted bread n condensed milk toasted bread. We shared the toasts.
On 4th May, i sent u a msg asking you "dont bb feel tired". You replied "no. don have time to b sleepy bb" . All these really in my mind till today. I was tearing when i got your msg on 7th May, you telling me that you will be leaving here for a week to meet supplier in Bgkk. Although i knew that you were telling lie, but still today i still forgive whatever lies that you were telling. I know i love you much and maybe whatever i did make you feel annoying n tension. really donno what in your mind. I sensed you will be back to my side one day. Now, i wish you found my true love.
Awaiting you to get your answer bb. Hope you will call me bb still.

真正愛你的男人

1. 真正愛你的男人，吵架之後主動讓步。
2. 真正愛你的男人，送上合妳心意的禮物。
3. 真正愛你的男人，親暱時照顧妳的感受。
4. 真正愛你的男人，為了妳他什麼都願意。
5. 真正愛你的男人，抽空向妳電話傳情。
6. 真正愛你的男人，採取"親友路線"。
7. 真正愛你的男人，一下子說不出真正愛妳的理由，只知道自己顧不上注意別人。
8. 真正愛你的男人，其實總惹你生氣，妳郤發覺不了他到底做錯了什麼。
9. 真正愛你的男人，很少當面贊美妳，可是心裏肯定你是最棒的。
10. 真正愛你的男人，會在妳忘記回覆他電話時狠狠地唸妳一頓。
11. 真正愛你的男人，只可能在妳一個人面前流眼淚，當觸摸到他時，也觸摸到了那顆只為妳跳動的心。
12. 真正愛你的男人，會默默地記住你不經意說過的話，在某時某刻重複它們。
13. 真正愛你的男人，不會容易作出承諾，因為他想讓自己成為你心中說話最算話的男子漢，只想給你最可靠最安全的幸福。
14. 真正愛你的男人，總告訴妳不要胡思亂想，因為其實他在為你們計劃著最美麗真實的未來，同時讓妳無憂無慮地等待他要給妳的驚喜。
15. 可能不像妳一樣清楚地記得某些紀念日，他覺得愛妳是無時無刻的，並不靠這幾天簡單的日子。
16. 不會輕易對妳當面說"我愛妳"，因為他為妳做過的每件事都己經這麼說了。除非在非常時刻，為了不讓妳無端地誤解他。
17. 真正愛你的男人，總覺得有些話只說一遍就夠了，因為妳已經瞭解他的心。說得多了，他會覺得不珍貴。
18. 真正愛你的男人，如困他去機場接妳，不會像妳期望的那樣捧著玫瑰大聲叫"親愛的"，只是自然地提過妳的行李，然後像用眼睛抱緊妳似的心疼地說﹕ "怎麼瘦了?"。
19. 真正愛你的男人，當妳發脾氣時，只會不做聲地聽妳把火發完，然後慢慢地說:"妳明天有課嗎?早點睡吧"。
20. 真正愛你的男人，不懂當妳生氣掛掉電話後應該立即打來，過了若干小時後發條簡訊問妳氣消了沒有? 如果妳質問他為何這麼久才打來，他會理直氣壯地說，好生氣時我的解釋一定沒有用，等妳火消了，我的解釋才有效。
21. 真正愛你的男人，總是叫妳小寶貝，可是每次他做什麼重大的決定，郤總想先聽聽妳的建議。
22. 真正愛你的男人，不喜歡玩具小毛熊，郤一直把妳送他的小熊放在床頭。
23. 真正愛你的男人，當和妳發生爭執時，總是控制不了地先妥協，先認錯，過後發來簡訊以"神經病"開頭，以"寶貝"結尾。事實上妳也清楚，這次是妳也清楚，這次是妳有點無理取閙。
24. 真正愛你的男人，很想很想妳時，也會買玫瑰送妳，傻傻地等著妳，郤不知道自己捧的是茶花。沒關係，他的心裏送的是玫瑰。
25. 真正愛你的男人，嘴巴都不甜，但是他的吻能傳遞他所有熱情。
26. 真正愛你的男人，當聽到妳對他講很"酸"的話時，他反而會裝得很正經，其實心裏很甜很甜。
27. 真正愛你的男人，如果不能經常見到妳，他會讓自己忙碌起來，為了不去想妳，因為他知道一想妳將會一發不可收拾。

爱在记忆中找你

1、遇到不想回答的問題：直視對方的眼睛，微笑、沈默 。
2、走路抬頭挺胸，心情不好時，不想跟人招呼，點頭微笑，逕直走過 。
3、請記得：好朋友的定義是，你混的好，他打心眼裡為你開心，你混的不好，他由衷的為你著急 。
4、做自己的決定，然後準備好承擔後果。從一開始就提醒自己，世上沒有後悔藥吃，而我永遠有個B計劃。
5、自己份內的事情，努力做到一百分 。
6、接受自己不過是個"小小的我"，但眼裡要能夠悅納"大大的世界" 。
7、如果你真的喜歡一個人，就給他自由。如果他能回到你身邊，他就是你的，如果他沒有回來，
那他也永遠不屬於你。
8、不要試圖給自己找任何藉口，錯誤面前沒人愛聽那些藉口。
9、不要隨意發脾氣，誰都不欠你的 。
10、不說謊話，因為總有被拆穿的一天。
11、別低估任何人。
12、你沒那麼多觀眾，別那麼累 。
13、過去的事情可以不忘記，但一定要放下。
14、別人說的記在腦袋裡，而自己的，則放在心裡。
15、社會是有等級的，很多事不公平，別抱怨，因為沒有用 。
16、你永遠沒有你自己想像中那麼重要 。
17、錢能解決的問題統統不叫問題。
18、無論何時說"我愛你"，請真心實意，無論何時說"對不起"，請看著對方的眼睛。
19、永遠不要以貌取人，慢慢地說，但要迅速地想。
20、找點時間，單獨呆會兒 。
21、不是自己的東西不要，就是再喜歡也不行，要懂得放棄 。
22、不要覺得是生活虧欠了你，其實是我所做的努力不夠 。
23、努力向前，再努力向前，再努力一下下，願望就會實現 ！
24、永遠沒有堅持到底的失敗，也不會有半途而廢的成功。
25、三人行必有我師，沒有人會比你弱，好學、上進的心態。多問問自己："我努力了沒有？"。

Al Gore(美國前副總統)在TED演說中分享了一句非洲古諺語:
「如果你想走得快，你要自己走；如果你想走得遠，你要找個伴。」說得真是好~!

我期待的你

我期待的你

我期待的你，當我累的時候，你能厚厚的胸膛能讓我休息．．．．．

我期待的你，當我睡的時候，你能擁我在夢中．．．．．

我期待的你，當我開心的時候，你能陪我一起笑．．．．．．

我期待的你，當我看見你的時候，你能甜蜜的親我一下．．．．．

我期待的你，當我想你的時候，你能不要讓我孤單太久．．．．

我期待的你，當我愛你的時候，你能懂得珍惜我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我握住你的手時候，你能千萬不要放開我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我依懶你的時候，你能安心的讓我靠．．．．．

我期待的你，當我付出的時候，你能用心的感受到．．．．．

我期待的你，當我撒嬌的時候，你能抱我在懷裡．．．．．

我期待的你，當我叫你的時候，你能溫柔的望著我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我表現好的時候，你能用響亮的掌聲鼓勵我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我過馬路的時候，你能牽著我的手過．．．．．

我期待的你，當我過人生的時候，你能陪我過完下輩子．．．．．

我期待的你，當我疑惑的時候，你能適當的開導我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我發脾氣的時候，你能適當的包容我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我抱怨的時候，你能假裝的支持我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我害怕的時候，你能大聲的對我說～不要怕，有我在．．．．．

我期待的你，當我等你的時候，你能不要讓我等太久．．．．．

我期待的你，當我需要你的時候，你能不要丟下我．．．．．

我期待的你，當我什麼都沒有的時候，你能讓我感覺還有～～你～～．．．．．

我期待的你，當我無助的時候，你能不要讓我獨自面對．．．．．

我期待的你，當我哭的時候，你能心疼的幫我擦拭．．．．．

我期待的你，當我希望的時候，你能不要讓我轉成失望．．．．．

我期待的你，當我心痛的時候，你能不要讓我痛太久．．．．．

我期待的你，當我心灰意冷的時候，你能不要再讓我燃起希望．．．．．

我期待的你，當我絕望離開的時候，你能狠心大力的把我推開．．．．．

因為你知道的～～深愛你的我，我要離開你是多麼的困難．．

唯有你的狠心，才能讓我順利的離開，才能讓我不要再繼續痛苦下去．．．．

我道知我深愛的他．．．不會變成我期待的他．．

不然他不會一次又一次讓我獨自哭泣，一次又一次放我獨自一個人．．．．．

寫到這裡，淚已流了不知有多少了．．．．．